Belonging through building

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There are places in the world that make us feel whole.
You arrive, and something inside you softens.
There is quiet harmony.

You sense it in the weight of a door handle.
In the way sunlight glides through the house.
In the smell of Deodhar timer beams.

What makes a place feel like it belongs?
Not just on the land,
but to the land.

Not just to its people,
but of its people.

Achieving this sense of belonging
is not about applying a style
or copying a Pinterest mood board.

It’s a delicate, fragile dance between land,
light,
memory,
material,
and people.

There’s a constant tug-of-war in the design process.
Between instinct and ego.
Between control and surrender."

Even in our practice,
We fail often.
We draw too soon.
We forget to observe.
We get in the way.

You have to resist the urge to impress.

Sometimes it means admitting the drawing wasn’t right, even if it looked good on paper.

Our practice is a quest for this feeling.
Not only comfort.
Not only luxury.

We try to make spaces that hold people the way a valley holds fog.

Gently.
Quietly.
Without needing to say too much.

The task of architecture,
then,
is not invention.
It is care.

And when it works,
you do not even notice the architecture.
You feel held.
At home.

That is belonging.

A care that shows in every joint,
every curve, every threshold.

One of the biggest challenges in architecture today
is learning how to stay grounded.

We have the tools to build anything, anywhere—
but that power can pull us away from people and place.

Belonging doesn’t come from big ideas alone.
It grows from the ground up.

From daily habits.
Local ways of living.
Things already full of meaning.

Good architecture listens.
It observes.
It makes space for memory.

It speaks to us,
not just through form,
but through feeling.

That’s why architects must be more than just designers.
We must become humanists.
Rooted in culture.
Aware of history.
And always learning how to truly see.

We’re still learning how to get there.
Still learning how to listen better.

And maybe that’s the work.

Gratitude,
Raghav and Ansh

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What you can watch - Peter Zumthor | 'Real and Imagined Buildings' | Building the Picture

What you can listen to - Christopher Alexander - Life in Buildings

What You Can Read - Building, Beauty, and Belonging

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